(Caption: A black and white image of two people holding hands | Source: Shelby Deeter , Unsplash) Do you find yourself in the same relationship patterns, no matter how different your partner is? Or perhaps you withdraw when things get too close, or you become anxious when your partner appears distant. These patterns may be part of an underlying issue—your attachment style. Attachment theory, which has evolved over decades of research culminating in the work of people like Sue